Saturday, October 16, 2004

Life is a tough balancing act !!!

Ever you thought, how much we have to balance ourself just to avoid becoming a jerk or stupid or unloveable. In our every day life, we have to pretend, just because to live in this socity and with the loved ones.

Today, I just wanted to be myself for sometime (May be a really bad guy :P ). The thought came, when I was riding my bike. It was not even 10 mins, when I heard a traffic constable shouting at me "abey subha subha 500 fine barneka ?" ( Why the heck u want to pay 500 rs fine in the morning). So, Its like, I just cant be myself and need to compramise / pretend everywhere. It is very easy to get a bad name in socity or family or in workplace.

Mostly balancing needed between career and personal life, which needs greater degree of balancing act. where both are important to any one. It gets worsen when spuose, kids and boss started expecting more from one.

It is also lucky to have an understanding people around you, where you dont need to pretend much. One can really have a wonderful life, when the family, socity and his workplace is understanding /flexible.

The balancing act is going to be there as long as human are social animal. So, atleast lets have a better understanding of our own family, friends and colleagues to make this world a wonderful world.

- Saravana Kumar (Since 1976)

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